Sunday, April 5, 2020

Tender Mercies

This will be the last tale I will be recording of our Trinidad Port of Spain Mission. I will begin with the 34 hour travel time to get back home.  A week ago today, March 28th, we were dropped off to the Curacao airport by our wonderful remaining senior couple in the mission, the Lehmans. It has been sad to see all of the missionaries, except 11, leave and return home. We were hoping we could stay but when the dryness of the air started causing my throat to bleed, we knew it was time. I was praying and asking Heavenly Father if we should go and I went to the scriptures and it opened up to 3 Nephi 19:1 which reads"...and every man did take his wife and his children and did return to his own home." I knew it was time as much as I really didn't want it to be.
We were at the airport at noon in plenty of time to make the 3 pm flight to Toronto. As we were checking in we were informed that we would not be allowed to get on the plane because we were not Canadian citizens. We were very confused because we had just purchased our tickets online the previous day through Air Canada with American passports. They told us that a new policy had just been announced 12 hours earlier which created this restriction. We called embassies and tried to get other flights but nothing was working. I sent out a cry for prayers on Facebook!  Finally, at 1:30  the desk attendant had mercy on us and checked us in because the flight would be locked at 2 pm. Filled with relief we went through security and got to the gate with a few minutes before boarding time. Tender mercy.
 Then they called us to the desk and said we still could not get on the flight because we would be spending the night in Toronto, waiting for the next day's flight to Vancouver and we were not Canadians. It was determined if we could get a flight to Miami from Toronto they would let us on. Dave then scrambled and managed to do just that on his phone standing at the desk. Relief again and we started to board. Just as we were to get on the plane we were stopped again and asked to wait by the wall of the walkway. We waited and felt bad that everyone else was waiting on us. After about 10 minutes someone came and said we could get on! There was even cheering as we boarded the plane from the other passengers. Tender Mercy. Holy Cow!
We were wearing our masks and were praying constantly that I wouldn't cough or have my breathing get compromised. I'm happy to report that I was fine the whole way home. Tender Mercy. We got into Toronto around 9 pm and were whisked off to the international waiting area and booked another ticket to Denver for 2 pm the next day. We had brought my large humidifier so we set that up with some chairs and tried to get comfortable with sleeping there in the airport. They told us we had to be ready to be moved at 5 am to our waiting gates. We did get a few hours of sleep and really, I felt quite rested when it was time to get up. Tender Mercy.
Our flight to Denver didn't leave until 2 pm so we had many hours to wait. We found a table at a restaurant that was closed and set up our computers and we played a few games we had brought with us, like Kings in the Corner and Quirkle to make the time pass. We kept watching the flight board and were noticing many many flights getting cancelled. We were somewhat disturbed by that and asked the information people if we needed to be worried. They said no.The Toronto airport was completely empty and there were only six people flying to Denver.  Finally, it was time to board the plane to Denver. We only had 1 hour to make our connecting flight to SLC when we arrived in Denver and we had to wait in the plane for 45 minutes because the stairs were having mechanical problems. I tried to calm myself and remember how many people were praying for us to get home safely. At last we were on our way and the pilot was able to make up 30 minutes of delay and we got to the gate to board for SLC with 18 minutes to spare. Tender Mercy. 
We arrived in SLC thrilled to see the mountains, the Bountiful temple and Dave was happy to see snow. Megan and Colton picked us up, loaded our six bags of luggage in their truck and drove us home, stopping to get some food since we hadn't really eaten anything for some time. 34 hours of intense, stressful, tiresome, sorrowful and excited feelings.
We drove into our drive way and saw several cars park along side the house. The house had balloons, streamers, posters and cutout hearts with messages covering our front door. Every car had our children inside along with most of our grandchildren. Annie, living in Colorado was even there remotely! Of course there could be no hugs because of the virus restrictions but we saw and gave air hugs to all of them! We were so touched and felt so loved by these darling people of ours! They have been so supportive of us while we have been serving and we are filled with gratitude to be back home with them again! Tender Mercy. 
Coming home this way and under these circumstances has been very difficult on us. There have been many tears of just releasing the stress of it all. It has caused us to grieve with having to be quarantined and not able to visit and embraced our children and grand children. I am still struggling to breathe as my airway heals from being completely dried out and damaged. We grieve at not having a purpose when every day and every hour for the last 17 months we have been engaged in serving the Lord and His children on our mission. So, we are so very happy to be home but it has been and will continue to take some time to adjust to the situation. Our children are careful and thoughtful to ask us what we need and they have gone shopping and picked up food for us. Ward members have dropped off meals and cookies and called and messaged.  We are loved and supported in every way. Tender Mercy.

Conference has been especially tender and we feel to praise the Lord for allowing us this great opportunity to serve, to grow, to make mistakes, to repent and try again. How blessed we are to live in a time when the fullness of the gospel is on the earth and the Church of Jesus Christ is restored and  established throughout the world and we got to help build the Kingdom in three other countries for a time. Tender Mercy. We will continue to strive to build the Kingdom where we are. We weren't perfect missionaries but we did give the Lord our best efforts.  


 Saying goodbye to our Mission President and his incredible wife. 
It was a great blessing to serve with them. 
President and Sister Baird
 Elder and Sister Lehman. They are the lone senior couple for the whole mission. 
Lovely, extraordinary couple. It was a blessing to serve with them.
 They won't let us on the plane....
 Finally!
 Sunset flying to Toronto, Canada
 They gave us complimentary sandwiches. Dave had three!  He was super hungry!
 Settling in for the night, it is advantageous to be short sometimes.  
 Dave needed another configuration
 Airport sign
 Watching this was a source of concern for us..
 The airport was like a ghost town

Going through customs for the good old USA!
 Waiting for our flight to Denver
 sometimes you just have to lay down and rest your eyes.
 Finally we are on the plane to Denver after being delayed 45 minutes sitting in the plane. 


 Beautiful snowy mountains!
 Bountiful Temple in view!
 Our HOME!
 Such a fun welcome!
 These are so special! One grand son writes, " I hope you don't get the corona virus" I hope not too!
 Nate and Brianna's, (not pictured) Jordyn and Marlee...no hugs but lots of smiles
 and Aydrie and Gabe. Can you imagine not being able to hug these cuties! 
 Austin, Amy and Mike. This was before we got there, then they were back in their car. 
 Aurora before we got home.....so huggable!
 Dalys with dad Kevin
 Dalys with mom Emilie, Beckham, Karaia, Tennyson and Sanders at the top
 Davis family: Evan, Graham, Meghan, Aurora and Alex.
Not pictured was Annie and family on the phone saying "welcome home" remotely
and Megan and Colton who picked us up.
 All of the previous pictures were taken before we got there. 
Giving enthusiastic air hugs!

Saturday, March 28, 2020

Coming Home!

I can't believe I'm writing this post right now. We have a flight scheduled to take us to Canada tomorrow and then home on Monday. We had planned on staying until the end of April but this island is very dry and I have been having a harder time breathing and this morning was especially bad so we decided to see if we could find a way home. This flight was the last one leaving Curacao for who knows for how long. We are sad to go under these circumstances and a little wary of what we are going to find when we get to Utah.

All will be well even if it isn't for a while.

We hope we have given the Lehmans enough information and training to help them run the office. We feel like they have a very good handle and understanding on most of it. Some things we just didn't get to but they can call and there are other resources they can get help from. They are wonderful people! The Bairds are remarkable extraordinary people and have kept their sanity and pleasant natures through this whole ordeal. It's been a privilege and blessing to serve with them.

This week we cleaned out two missionary apartments, packed up all the food storage they had just bought and took it to the mission home.  Sister Lehman and I created 37 mission release certificates, (which President Baird signed) and cleaned out the files of those missionaries and mailed each one of them their certificates along with all the important documents in their files.  I had thought all the missionaries had gotten home last week but none had left from Suriname. Dave and Elder Lehman took care of making sure there was enough money on the cards to get the remaining 28 Suriname missionaries home. Each ticket cost $1,200 US. Eastern Airlines made one flight available for all US citizens to get out of Suriname. I'd say they, the airlines, certainly took advantage of a bad situation. It was a very stressful and intense couple of days hoping and praying that the missionaries all got home safely. The rest of the week they paid most of the rents for April among many other things. Dave has been working with a contractor to get his bid on some repair work that needs to be done on the mission home and then getting the money gathered to pay him half up front.

Yesterday we took a break and drove to "tugboat" beach. It's called that because there is a sunken tugboat in the cove. We had plans to go back and snorkel around it but that won't be happening. 

We want to express our gratitude for all of you who have been reading this, sending responses and feeling your prayers. It was so helpful to know that the people we love were interested and curious about what we were experiencing. It has been an adventure of a life time and like I said last week, already feels like a dream.

We have gotten to experience three different types of missions. Our first area had very little to no modern conveniences such as indoor wiring and plumbing and a lot of hardship and scarcity but the people were kind, loving and strongly committed to living the Gospel.We got to teach seminary, work with the young adults, work in the branch, do lots of ministering visits,  teach with missionaries and see lots of baptisms.  We have loved ones there that will never be forgotten.

 The second area was a little more modern but we were completely by ourselves with no other missionaries and working with a branch that really struggled to keep people active. We did ministering visits, mentored leadership, we taught discussions and had some wonderful baptisms. We got to be involved in preparing two young people for their missions. They were the very first missionaries from Tobago in the history of the Church.  We also have loved ones there that will never be forgotten.

Our last area was very modern, good roads and nice buildings. You could buy just about anything you could want. We didn't get to know the members cause the language spoken was Spanish or Papiamento and we worked everyday in the office helping to run the mission. We did get to see the young missionaries often and President and Sister Baird and had a short time with two other senior couples. We fell in love with many of the young missionaries and other senior couples and hope our associations will not be ending with the mission.  Office missions are a breed of their own and we got to be there when the missionaries were all sent home and the mission basically shut down. So not even a normal "office mission" experience either.

We are grateful for these experiences even though some of them were pretty hard to manage at times. We are grateful for the joy we have felt as people we love embraced God's plan for them and continue to make efforts to follow Jesus Christ. We are grateful to have the privilege of living in three different countries and learning about the people and the cultures of each one. We are grateful to have a sure knowledge that our Heavenly Father loves all His children deeply no matter where they are or what their life is like.  We have an AWESOME God as well as an AWESOME Savior and we are so grateful we got to help in our small way to build their Kingdom, which is actually  all. for. us.  YOU and ME.

What's our next adventure?!

 There was no sign so we no nothing about this fort other than it's here
 President and Sister Baird at a Zoom meeting  
Technology is pretty amazing!
 all the missionaries still in Suriname (28) Trinidad (2 Elders and one senior couple) Guyana (2) Aruba (2) Curacao ( 2 senior couples and the Bairds) we are the top row 2nd from the left
 Scenery at "tugboat" beach
 The fort. No date or name
 friendly coconut
 turtle made from coconut shell and drift wood
 pinball machine made from junk
 on top of the fort
 a little house just my size
 looking toward "tugboat" beach from the fort
 Dave along the path to the fort
 and of course, flowers. 
 this is only dime size
 more of the fort
 Mechanical engineers are curious about such things
 wall around the fort
 close up of the brick work
 Lots of cacti in Curacao
 They made a little playground by the fort
 I've never seen a fallen cactus tree until now
Aloe Vera growing wild

Tender Mercies

This will be the last tale I will be recording of our Trinidad Port of Spain Mission. I will begin with the 34 hour travel time to get back ...