Sunday, January 20, 2019

Missions change hearts

I've been pondering on this week to find some things to write about and having a difficult time identifying anything really note worthy, just really more of the same. I was also not feeling really well either. I think it was some kind of sinus/ear infection or something...pretty intense pain in my lower right jaw and ear. Fortunately, we have a stash of antibiotics to use for emergencies. I know, that's self diagnosing and self medicating but it's what we do here. I even stayed home from church today because of it. I have just felt so tired and yucky. I was curious what would happen in Primary if I wasn't there and Dave said it got along just fine without me. The Primary President didn't show up but someone else stepped in. That makes me very happy! I had sent the lesson along with the music charts with Dave so at least they had that.
We taught seminary all week except Friday and had fairly good attendance. Friday, we took Pamela and Joel to Georgetown to get married (we thought) it ended up we were able to get all the paper work done and pay the fee and then they gave us a date to come back for the marriage. We get closer all the time... now, Feb 1st we will take them early early in the morning to make it there by 8:30 am. That's the only time they can marry people....don't know why....that's just the way it is. It's exciting to be this far along in the process though. We were hoping they would be married on Dave's birthday but it just wasn't to be. Which speaking of Dave's birthday....kind of really low key. There aren't a lot of places to go, that we know of to celebrate so we really didn't do much of that. 62 years old and counting! We did hear from most of the kids and that was nice.
Later that evening we had the YSA activity. We watched the devotional with the Renlunds. It was very good. We had one sister, besides me and four other brothers and the missionaries. I made Cowboy Caviar and they seemed to like it.
Saturday, we had a brother and sister get baptized. Sarah (16) and Aaron (12) Suhku. Really darling people! They come from a Hindu background and have had to decide to basically go against their mother's religion to join the church. It has been a difficult decision for them but they are very dedicated to being at church every week. They have been there every Sunday since we have arrived. I didn't know they weren't members for quite awhile. It is always such  treat to get to attend these baptisms.
The paper work process for the new church location has begun, so that is good. We haven't got official word if they are going to use the building here yet but hopefully they won't take too long to let Mr. Goodluck, the owner, know what has been decided so he can either continue to build it for the church or build it for apartments.
I kind of feel badly that I don't have any really wonderful spiritual experiences to write about. We pray, fast and study to be close to the Spirit. We don't spend a lot of time teaching investigators or really even doing a lot of contacting. Most of our time is spent with teaching and visiting with church members, whom we love.
Although, Dave is experiencing some interesting changes within himself and which are very apparent to me as well. With the driving being so chaotic, the disorganization or lack of government and the different cultural of the society, he has found that instead of getting stressed, angry and even impatient, he is just the opposite which he attributes the change to the Lord. It really has been amazing to watch his behavior and temperament change from pretty high strung, somewhat impatient and critical to calm, peaceful, patient and kindly tolerant. It's pretty wonderful! Now me on the other hand.....I have absolutely no problem loving people but when a car pulls out in front of you when you are driving 50 miles an hour with no warning or wants to merge when there is no lane to merge into... I get a little anxious and bothered. Good thing we have several more months to be on our mission so I can improve on my temperament too!

 The baptism of Aaron and Sarah Suhku. starting left; Rebekah Suhku, (twin of Sarah) Terrance, Aaron, Sarah, Dawn (a member) Nafur (young women's president) President Ramdeholl, Joshua by me and Dave in the back.

 Aaron baptized by Terrance
 Sarah baptized by President
 teeny tiny grasshopper
 pretty amazing!
 Tacos are not plentiful here and they are one of our favorite things to eat. So, we happened to find some taco shells in Georgetown. These are black bean tacos with my "cheese" sauce and cashew cream. Very yummy!
 I will now demonstrate how to make passion fruit juice.


 you have to strain the seeds to get the juice out of the pulp stuff.
 add some water and sugar and ta da!  So delicious!
 These are wild and some people keep them as pets
 Gotta have some flower pictures eh?


 You will see wrecked, abandoned vehicles everywhere in Guyana. 
They leave them there and they become works of art....so to speak.
 walking up from visiting a new member. That's our car in the background. 
Some places there isn't a place for a car to go.
 Many people farm for a living. This is a very large farm with okra, burra, etc.
 There are drain ditches all over and this is the first time we managed to get stuck in one. We didn't know how we were going to get out and suddenly we had four guys gathered around lifting up the car. So kind!
 Look at this smile!  This is Ruzzon Blair a member in our branch. 
He just received his call to go to Fort Lauderdale, Florida on his mission!
These sweet sisters came to visit me after church when I didn't feel well enough to go. starting left: Sister Giles, Sister King, Molly, me and Sarah, Molly's daughter. Love them so much!

Sunday, January 13, 2019

Two months in Guyana

This Wednesday the 16th will make two months since we have been here in Guyana! I'm quite certain that two months in Bountiful feels quite different than two months in Guyana. It's been challenging and rewarding and honestly, it's getting easier as the days go by.

Two months ago we were told we would have water from 6 to 8 am, then from noon to 2 pm, and then from 6 to 8 pm.  The powers that be say it should be remedied this month...we are not holding our breath or rather, we are not leaving our containers empty. Even that is really no big deal anymore since we have a routine established and we just enjoy running water when we have it and if we happen to be home for it. We also have become accustomed to never using the tap water for anything but washing and only drink and cook with what comes out of the filtered unit.

Two months ago we were waiting to get internet and having to go to the church and spend many hours there, but now we have it every day in our apartment and happily, it is pretty reliable. We made a sweet deal with the lady downstairs and I think it's a win/win for both of us.

Two months ago we wondered where we would get food to eat and how to prepare it but now we have found it's readily available and we even know where to get certain foods that we enjoyed back home... like tortilla chips and salsa and I hate that I have gained weight! There is a little ice cream shop down our street and even though I try to eat only plants, ice cream cones are a great stress reliever at times. Unfortunately, there has been some stress.....

Two months ago we were in shock with how chaotic and dangerous the traffic is. We feared for our lives almost daily if we drove anywhere, and Dave had to learn how to not only drive on the other side of the road but learn how to drive like the Guyaneese do, but now....I still fear for our lives but we aren't surprised (in truth, we still are surprised) with what we see and experience and Dave has mastered the Guyaneese skill superbly and with gusto!

Two months ago we were curious and wondered about all the animals that roam around unsupervised, multiplying as free animals will do but now we are very accustomed to seeing them everywhere, driving around them, waiting for them to cross the road etc. Today on our returning from church we got to see a herd of horses and a mother and her new little foal walking down the very busy street.

Two months ago we were ringing wet very often with our clothes sticking to our skin and sweat dripping off our faces, melting in the extreme heat and humidity but now.....it's the same. We just look forward to getting home and peeling layers of clothing off, turning on the AC in the bedroom and standing in front of the fans. I've also realized that many of the clothes I brought do not work well here. We did request a humid area for my breathing issues, so we're not complaining per se. My breathing is pretty much the same as in our humidified home. I do still cough a lot to get things to moved out of my breathing space. I will be happy for the millennium to get here though so I don't have to worry about breathing anymore.

Two months ago we didn't know where any one in our branch lived nor were their addresses available with lds tools or google maps but now we have pinned almost everyone that is active or semi-active, made a map and can visit them without much issues other than the roads continue to be filled with pot holes the size of small cars and we have learned to keep our bodies loose so we don't injure our backs and necks as we bump, sway and jerk down the roads. Dave wishes he had some kind of grading implement to drag behind our very appropriate and reliable Nissan X Trail, which has four wheel drive.
Two months ago we hadn't met any of these brave, loving, faithful people. We had no idea what hardships, challenges and scarcity some people live with in their lives and now our hearts have been entwined with theirs and we love and honor them. We will leave pieces of our hearts, which will be forever changed, here when we leave.

Two months ago when we heard people talk we could barely understand what they were saying but now...it's still kind of the same. We do better with the phrases and words but we still have to ask them to repeat things for us in a slower way. I really love how they talk and I want to understand everything they say. "We be trying more" though.

Two months ago we were given the assignment to find a location for a new church building for our branch and we spent hours driving here and there, talking to various persons and being sent in circles but now we have found a possible place and the Mission President and the facilities manager for the Church have come to see it and will be requesting the process of re-location!

Two months ago we had never been to a zone conference or worked with these incredible, amazing people, the Mission President and wife, the Bairds, the other senior couples and all the elders in this mission and now we are in awe at the dedication and faithfulness of the servants in the Trinidad Port of Spain Mission. We feel so blessed and honored to serve with them and beside them.

Two months ago we met the family of Pamela and Joel who have five beautiful children but who cannot get baptized until they are married. Three of their children have been baptized and it's been two years since meeting the missionaries. Finances and other issues have prevented them from getting married because it requires a trip to Georgetown, two hours away plus a fee to do it. They have no vehicle and very little money to speak of, but now we will be taking them this Friday to Georgetown to get married!!! It's Dave's birthday and we told them it would be so special for them to get married on his birthday. We have a baptism the next day for another family with a sister and brother and now perhaps they can get baptized on the same day!

Two months ago we left our beautiful children and grandchildren and placed them in God's hands to take care of and now as far as we know, they are all well and continuing to be the wonderful people they are, hopefully feeling blessed by our service here. Knowing we love them, miss them and pray for them constantly.

Two months ago we thought we had strong testimonies of the restored church of Jesus Christ, of the power of the Book of Mormon, of the redeeming power of Jesus Christ through his Atonement, of the reality of the power of the priesthood and the saving ordinances of the gospel, of the blessing of having a living prophet on the earth and of the love God has for all of His children but now all of that knowledge has been deepened and strengthened and we have seen how God wants to bless His children and change their lives for the greater if they will let Him.
It's been an amazing two months!
 These are the extraordinary people we get to serve with in Guyana....well, we are kind of serving by ourselves in Linden but every once in a while we get to enjoy their company. President and Sister Baird are on the lower right then The Haakes, The Thackerys, The Bohnes, and us. We are missing the ODairs who were flying back from Trinidad and couldn't make it. There are two other couples in Curacao where the Bairds live, The Jones and the Parrs and another couple in Suriname, The Vermeerens. There is also the Williams in Trinidad and the Lindleys in Aruba. With six different countries spread out by great distance and water, There is not enough of us to go around. We need more seniors..... I hope I haven't scared any of you out of coming and helping us help the Lord!
You really won't regret it....after the first few weeks.....   :)

 At our Zone Conference in Georgetown, Guyana

This may be the future church building for the Linden branch. The upper floor will be the chapel because there are only a few pillars where the lower floor has one every 9 feet so it will be good for classes. The builder is willing to let us configure the building however we need to to get it to work for us. This is nice cause it's already so far along so it shouldn't take as long to get it finished and moved into...other than all the approval process etc.

 Not the greatest picture of me but I wanted you to see beautiful Rona. She is the other seminary teacher and has 4 children, her youngest you see here. We are grating cassava root and coconut to make pone. It's kind of like marzipan. It is a labor of love because it is very hard to prepare with finely grating the cassava and coconut. We are at Molly's home and she is teaching us how to make it.
 Here I am mixing it up. You can see that they were grated up so finely as to create a paste. You add a pound of sugar, spices, nutmeg and cinnamon and a couple of eggs. Then put it in a cake pan and bake it. It is very yummy!
 This is Molly and Haniff with President Baird who got to visit when he came to look at the church.
 This Pamela and one of her five children, Rae-ella with President Baird
 They raised this Toucan from a little baby. One of the sons found it in a tree.
 This is their home. You can see a solar panel on the roof. That is their only source of power.
 Pretty narly tree in our neighborhood
 One of the vegetables on Haniff's farm...not sure what but it's kind of like a cucumber.
This is the flower! How did God think of so many ways to make a flower?! All because He loves us and wanted to give us an amazing world!

Our dinner with President Baird and his wife was at the Marriott in Georgetown. We decided at the last minute to stay the night because the drive back to Linden is bad in the daylight but suicidal in the night. We hadn't packed to stay over so the hotel gave us a toothbrush and toothpaste. Isn't that the cutest little thing you've ever seen! 

Sunday, January 6, 2019

No Wimps allowed! (Weakly Interacting Massive Particles) did you know that?

What can I say? This has been a very hard week for us. We had a misunderstanding that enveloped us for many days. Thankfully, when you can't get away from each other, you have to address things and resolve them, which we were able to do. We are now once again well and happy and trying be on the same page doing the Lord's work.
New Year's Day...or Day after Old Year's Night....we went to Georgetown and spent the afternoon with the other Senior couples in Guyana. Sister Bohne prepared ham and beans soup (she made a special pot for me without ham! So thoughtful!) Creamed spinach, which was heavenly and smothered cabbage, which is cooked cabbage with onions and ham (she made a separate one for me without ham.) I was very touched at her thoughtfulness. It was a delicious meal and we had an enjoyable time visiting with each other. The drive down and back was so pleasant because there was hardly anyone on the road.
We didn't have seminary this week because of the holiday break but we start teaching again tomorrow. Our one constant student, Shaneeza, is with her mother in New York and doesn't know when she will be returning, so hopefully we will get some other students to commit to attending on a regular basis. We have two for sure that said they will come and perhaps others will get interested also.
Being "the" Senior Couple, one of our responsibilities is to see that the bikes for the Elders are in good functioning order. Each companionship has four bikes so they have an emergency bike to use until the other one gets fixed. Sometimes the Elders remove parts from one bike to the other so we had four bikes that were not usable at all because they had parts missing, broken handle bars, broken gear shifts, single wheels, flat tires etc. Dave evaluated all the bikes and brought two of the wounded bikes and two other skeleton bikes along with all the parts the missionaries had in a box, home and we went and bought all the needed parts. He has worked and worked on them. He has one totally finished with shiny new fenders, cleaned and greased chains, new tires and tubes, new cables, lights, and handle bars. He will work on the other one this week. Then both sets of Elders will have four bikes each companionship, that are in very good shape. I think he has rather enjoyed this project and he is so good at it too! I'm amazed at all the things my good husband can and will do to serve.
Friday, we had our YSA activity. We had a great lesson on "Not looking Back" for the new year. We talked about Lot's wife and how that applies to all of us. Then we introduced them to "hot dice" and had fun with that. We had brownies and "nice cream"  which surprisingly to me does not work as well here as it does in Utah. They have several different types of bananas or plantain and the consistency is quite different than the bananas we get in Utah so it turns out more like a pudding than an ice cream consistency. But, they liked it anyway!  We had seven people there which is up from the five we started with.
Today, Sunday, We had church with our new schedule and it was very nice. Our branch Primary President was there and she taught a lesson and then I taught them a couple of songs and the time was finished! One little guy, Onandie (I love him so much!) asked if primary was over and I said yes and he actually groaned and was sad.
We came home for lunch and then went out on visits with our Branch President Ryan. We had a great time meeting with people and praying with them. I love that they usually hold hands in a circle when we pray. We went to five families. Many of them had only been baptized since Oct. but haven't been coming to church since. I'm not sure how much they understand about the commitment that is required after baptism. Many churches don't require regular attendance and when you are baptized that's all you have to do. We have lots of work to do to get them to grasp this new concept of a changed life and way of being. The Church is just a "baby" in this area, but has so much potential for growth and influence.
After our visits, Pres. Ryan took us to see the beautiful side of Guyana. We went to the mine fields which are really lovely mountains of Bauxite tailings. Bauxite is an ore that contains 15-25% aluminium. They have a large company here in Linden. Then he took us to a beautiful sandy beach along side the Demerara River. It's a gorgeous place and completely isolated from the hectic, crowded area of Linden. Then he took us to blue lake which was formed by the mining of bauxite many years ago. We had no idea these places existed and were delighted to see them and look forward to spending some longer time there.
Sometimes when I am waking up in the morning and realize I am still here in this difficult situation, I am surprised by the sadness I feel. Missions are hard! They are not for quitters, or for fragile or wimpy people. You have to be willing to tough it out and work on yourself and develop or weed out traits you never thought to have. You have to be willing to be tolerant, loving, patient and forgiving of your companion and let them develop or weed out traits they never thought to have. I can't say I've weeded out or developed in the way I feel the Lord is giving me the opportunity to do but it certainly is the perfect schooling to do so and I am grateful for that when I wake up fully and think about what we could do to show our love to our Savior and Heavenly Father today. How can we be His hands and His heart today. The people here are very easy to love and they love very freely. We are frequently trying to take our "Utah Mormon" mentality out of minds and hearts and be patient, understanding and let them grow and learn at the pace they need to.
This morning, Monday. I woke up remembering what I wrote here and felt like I needed to explain a little further as to what I am feeling. We volunteered for this!  It'a a honor and privilege to be here! Yes, it is hard to give up all the comforts of home and miss family and friends but....always a but. It's worth it to learn and develop in a way that would not be possible staying comfortable in what we know. There is a saying here in Guyana when you ask someone how they are, often they will say "I tryin" This is very telling of how life is here. It is trying and you do have to try every day to be better and better. We have immersed ourselves in this society and we are finding joy and beauty in our surroundings amidst all the hardship and scarcity that we see people enduring. I believe it will be one of the most worthwhile things we do in our lives.
 There are tons of dogs around but not many cats. This is a very nice looking one.
 Dave loves taking pictures of flowers!

 More scenery in a part of town we hadn't seen yet.
 I love how the houses are just tucked up in the hills.
 We discovered the Linden cemetery. All of the graves are above ground.
 Soccer is a favorite past time and these men posed for me.
 Skeleton of a bike
 Another one
 Finished!
 Beautiful sandy beach on the river
 Dave zoomed in to get this shot.
 Some scenery from the mine tailings

 It's a beautiful coral color
 This is a pure spring and our Branch President, Ryan Ramdeholl
 Gotta try it! Water is precious here.
 The spring
Blue Lake created by mining bauxite

Tender Mercies

This will be the last tale I will be recording of our Trinidad Port of Spain Mission. I will begin with the 34 hour travel time to get back ...